When our granddaughters spend the night, they never choose our regular glasses for drinking. They choose the wine glasses, the flower-etched glasses, or the fancy silver-fused glasses. These glasses fuel their imagination ... I think the girls become princesses by using these vessels.

As adults we learn not to consider the impossible, so we never dream of somehow waking up as royalty. In goal setting we learn that goals fill needs, and that success is the progressive realization of a worthwhile goal. Goal setting should be cut-and-dried. I?ve always felt it was a serious business. I think, however, there might be more to consider.

In the movie Last Holiday, the character Georgia Byrd, played by Queen Latifah, keeps a private journal, a Book Of Possibilitiees. In this book she keeps photographs of meals she has cooked, but never eaten, and images of places and events she only dreams about. Included in her dreams are the marriage of her and an acquaintance at work, photographs of her heroes, and places she can?t afford to visit. Although her book says ?possibilities,? without action on her part she has no chance of living them and so they really remain ?impossibilities.?